Is Tug of War Okay?

A few years ago almost anyone would tell you that playing tug of war teaches a dog to be dominant and aggressive to people. Fortunately, we have a better understanding of dogs now and know that tug of war can be beneficial in addition to being fun. Tug can enforce self-control, improve self-confidence in shy dogs, help a dog bond to its new family, and provide mental and physical exercise. As with all games, there are some rules that need to be followed.

• You should initiate the game. If your dog drops a tug toy in your lap or shoves it in your hand and you are willing to play, that’s okay. Simply have the dog do something for you first (Sit, Roll over, etc.) and then start the game.
• Your dog must be able to let go of the toy on your cue. Teaching Drop it is important before playing tug games with your dog.
• Your dog must only take the toy when given permission. Have your dog Wait or Stay for several seconds before re-engaging in the game. This is the self-control portion of tug. A dog who randomly jumps at you and grabs for the toy is not a joy to play with and will frequently miss the toy and grab an arm or leg instead.
• Your dog can win! Allowing shy dogs to win about half of the time improves self confidence and gets the dog to be more involved with its environment. Dogs who aren’t shy can still win from time to time, too. After all, who wants to keep playing a game that they always lose?
• Immediately stop playing if your dog’s teeth come in contact with your skin or clothes – even if it was an accident. You may return to playing after about 20 seconds if your dog is calm. The session should end completely if his teeth touch you one or two more times. If it was an accident, your pooch will quickly learn to be more careful. If it wasn’t, your dog will learn manners and understand that he doesn’t get to have fun if he mouths you.
• You should end the play session. This may be done by you winning and getting the toy or by you telling the dog “It’s yours” and putting your hands up, releasing the toy for the dog. The latter is helpful for dogs who may remain slightly aroused after play and need to be able to chew on the toy for a few minutes. It is not appropriate for dogs who will take a toy to a favorite spot and guard it.
• Only play with toys designed for tug of war. Ideally the toy should keep your hand at least 12 inches from your dog’s mouth. There are a number of rugged toys available, some with handles for better gripping. Stuffed toys, tennis balls and the ilk are not safe for tug.